December 16, 2025
How Narcissists Use Confusion to Win
One of the most powerful weapons in difficult conversations isn’t yelling, insults, or aggression — it’s confusion.
In this episode, I break down how confusion gets weaponized to avoid accountability, derail clarity, and exhaust you into giving up. You’ll learn how to spot when confusion is genuine versus strategic, and exactly what to say to regain control, slow the conversation down, and protect your clarity without escalating the conflict.
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