Top Conflict Coach Shares the Key to Staying Cool Under Attack

When someone comes at you with anger, judgment, or blame, it’s easy to take the bait.

But real confidence shows up in your ability to stay calm when others lose control. In this episode, I break down how to regulate yourself when you’re under attack — the exact mental shift that stops defensiveness in its tracks. You’ll learn the “observe, don’t absorb” rule, simple breathing and grounding tools, and the one mindset that helps you stay cool no matter who’s trying to push your buttons.

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